“But the heart’s not like a box that gets filled up. It expands in size the more you love.”
I want to propose to my girlfriend, but do I need to propose with a ring? I think she’d prefer to just exchange rings on our wedding day, it just seems strange to show up empty-handed to a proposal!
It can be a tricky situation for any couple looking to get
engaged, but LGBT couples face an additional set of challenges; gender roles
tend not to exist, which is wonderful, but can make things a bit more
Here is my suggestion; if you think that your girlfriend would prefer to only exchange rings on your wedding day, go with that! You know her better than anyone. A lot of couples, gay and straight, are shying away from engagement rings these days. You could get her another piece of jewelry instead, such as a necklace, a bracelet or a watch. Getting it engraved makes it even more special.
I remember hearing about Jesse Tyler Ferguson proposing to his now husband with a watch that he had engraved to say “Spend all your time with me.” I thought that was so sweet and understated. It’s special, but not flashy and it’s a genuine and unique.
Make sure that you feel as though your proposal is true to you as a couple and as individuals. However you decide to do it, be positive that it’s the best way to show your girlfriend that you love her! Also, good luck!
From Erica, of the Weins Family Cellars...
My dad is gay. A little girl's father is one of the few people in her life that will love her unconditionally, no matter what, through anything, period. And why should that be any different in return? My father came out to me just two short years ago, and it has been an amazing journey getting to know the man he loves today, the life they live together, and love that they share for one another. It is exciting to say that my dad, along with thousands of other gay couples are now able to join in the union of marriage. My father was the inspiration behind this shoot, and it was an honor for him and his partner to be our models.
Working as a wedding coordinator for Wiens Family Cellars, it especially breaks my heart to learn that many venues and vendors are turning away same sex couples. It was because of my father, coupled with the true desire to gain exposure to same sex weddings, I knew I had to make my vision become a reality. I contacted Michelle Garibay Events and was put in contact with her Senior Consultant, Cara Goset, and we immediately began collaborating details and compiling our team of same sex friendly vendors.
This vintage-industrial themed shoot focuses on incorporating a modern touch to a naturally rustic environment that makes up a winery. Sweet Pea Floral Creations brought in romantic white florals in an array of different metals, creating a soft touch to a masculine industrial theme. A wine barrel bar, whitewashed tables, and benches were provided by Rustic Events partnering with items from Signature Party Rentals. The groom’s attire was graciously provided by Friar Tux Shop while Dominica Beauty came in to polish the look with hair and airbrush makeup. Paper Villa Stationary and Design provided us with the unique menu cards and invitations, and the love was captured by Kevin Nguyen with Photoquest Studio Photography.